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Monday, July 15, 2019

HATE

We Humans are the only species on earth that hate. We are also the only species completely in charge of our own destinies.

America is the greatest experiment in world history.  It is no accident that we are geographically removed from all other continents.  You might say we were given this piece of earth so that we could not only imagine the concept of a free and equal society, but also make it reality.

No one ever believed it would be easy.  No one ever believed it would happen quickly, or without dissension and angst.  Ideas are starting points: the Title of the novel, if you will. And this particular novel is not yet finished.  In fact, it is fair to say it will never be finished.

In 1861 President Lincoln pronounced that "a country divided against itself cannot stand." Thus began the Civil War.  Six-hundred-twenty thousand combatants died.  Some 50,000 civilians perished along with them.

It was a bitter time in our country and it ended with the assassination of Lincoln on April 14, 1865, just five days after the surrender of Confederate forces on April 9th.

While there was more than one reason for the Civil War, at its apex was slavery.  The perceived right of some individuals to own others whom they thought inferior.  Even Lincoln considered the black man and woman less than he and his counterparts.  But Lincoln also believed that every person had the "inalienable" right to chart their own destiny; and that no man or woman should be held in chains, or otherwise, against his or her will.

The Civil War set the black man and woman free, but it was a tortured freedom that continued to kill and abuse them for nearly one-hundred additional years.  Then, on two separate occasions in 1955, Claudette Colvin and Rosa Parks refused to give up their seats on a bus to a white person. Soon the movement for Black rights, Civil Rights, gained momentum.  Its chosen leader was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.  Forty-one people lost their lives during those trying years, which fatefully ended with the assassination of Dr. King, in Memphis, Tennessee, on April 4, 1968.

We are humans first and Americans second.  "American" is a title that places us within a certain group, which in turn supposedly distinguishes us (one could say "separates us") from other groups with different names.  But every person on earth was Human first; and only humans--all seven billion-plus working together--can rid the world of hate.

Sadly, in 2019 hate looms larger than it has in many decades.  In America and many other parts of the educated and free world, individuals and groups are rising once again to question who deserves to be a part of their exclusive groups, who is worthy of their respect and who deserves their disdain.

The Internet and the Cell phone make every voice available every moment of every day. And we humans are easy prey to the spoken or texted word.  In turn, we often blindly accept as absolute truth that which is said by those we support or admire.  In the process, we surrender our own voices, our own thoughts. Our natural inclination to question. To step back and listen. To consider.  To not judge.  

To make up our own minds.

The first people to settle in North America are known today as "Native Americans": The rest of us came later and from somewhere else: among these peoples were the Spanish, French, Irish, Germans, Italians, Chinese, Japanese, Russians, Southeast Asians, Cubans, Mexicans, Jews, Indians and Middle Easterners.  In other words, a sampling of the richness of the whole world has made its home somewhere in the U.S.  We once touted ourselves as the "melting pot" of the world.  Today it has become a "dirty word."

When our founding fathers penned the phrase "all men are created equal", they did not say "except . . .."  No such caveat was appended.  Many respected scientists would add that we all originated from a common Mother who lived somewhere in Africa.  That possibility alone should give us pause to reconsider how we view each other and the world.

So why do we continue to hate those unlike us on the outside?  Why do we believe that people from certain countries are thieves, rapists and useless?  Did the Civil War, Civil Rights and Gay right's battles teach us nothing?  Do we really want to spend our days and nights hating others while the world is begging us to focus our energies elsewhere?

Our children and their children are inheriting a world that desperately needs cooperation, tolerance and compassion. And these are but the starting points.  Future generations will have little time to hate.  They will be too busy dealing with our current sluggish response to a planet devastated by division and reckless use of resources.

Global warming is a fact, even if we don't want to admit it.  The world's population is growing by the Billions.  Money cannot solve these problems because it cannot rid the world of division. It cannot rid it of hate.  Only human actions can.

Hate is a weapon as deadly as a gun. And on this day, July 17, 2019, we are a nation divided against ourselves.  We have no functioning Democracy.  On one side stand the Democrats and their followers.  On the other, the Republicans and their followers.  All other parties melt into the landscape.

Thankfully, newer members of Congress are speaking their minds.  They have made it clear that they value our founding fathers’ dream; and they will not be silenced.  They are searching, as are many Americans and the rest of the world, for the once-was concept called the "American Dream."  They were not elected to be a part of “group think."  They were elected to get us back on track.

I congratulate them for their courage.  And I stand with them in their fight to find Democracy and restore it to its rightful place.



As song writer Irving Berlin wrote so many years ago--the text of which is etched into America's most cherished icon, the Statue of Liberty, which in turn welcomed thousands of refugees and immigrants to our Eastern shores: 

"Give me your tired, your poor
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore
Send these the homeless tempest-tost to me
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!"





Wednesday, October 31, 2018

Pittsburgh


To end the violence, love each other.  Do not judge, for once you judge, you lock the door to friendship and understanding.

Lay down your guns and extend the hand of acknowledgment to a stranger.  If you are afraid of another, pause to see the fear in his or her eyes.

Throughout history we have employed two tools to confront fear:

Weapons
and
Love

Weapons in the hands of the powerful are quick and deadly.  They create terror among those upon whom they are unleashed.  Weapons perpetuate violence.  They do not heal; they divide.

Love needs no arsenal.  It is readily available to all.  It comes from the quiet place we call "heart".  It is sometimes shy, uncertain.  Sometimes bold and invigorating.  It builds bridges.  It walks in another's footsteps so that it can share another's pain, abandonment and humanity.  It realizes that we are more alike than different.  That we each desire life, hope, home, food and safety.

Love is everywhere, but we find little mention of it in public discourse and media.

When has casting stones back and forth ever created unity and cooperation?

In the end, it is up to us, you and I.  It always was and it always will be.  Most of us may not be in any Who's Who, but we are no less remarkable human beings.  And we are powerful!

Love today--right where you stand. Share a smile.  A compliment.  Buy coffee or breakfast for a stranger. Stop to let a car in front of you. "Walk ten steps" in a friend's, colleague's, spouse's, child's shoes before you speak in rebuke. Learn to think love.  Touch your breastbone and say "heart" each time you are challenged by people and events.

Send out good thoughts and support, even when it's an effort, until it becomes your first and only response.

"#Heart."  "#Heart."  "#Heart."


Tuesday, January 3, 2017

2017 New Year, New Day


In 2016 we elected Donald Trump President of the United States.  Those who voted for him expect him to make their lives better.  Every President has, more or less, been elected under the same mandate.

History, however, tells a different story.  The world in which we live was built  by us, you and I, the common people.  And only you and I can make it better.  If you want a better life and a safer, kinder world, then start by changing the environment in which you live.  Begin with kindness, compassion, trust and forgiveness.  Elect leaders who exhibit these in abundance.  Without this foundation, nothing can change.

In turn, our leaders are human beings like ourselves.  They will never meet all our expectations because such a feat is impossible for any single person.

And finally, remember, a CEO of a corporation has employees who answer to him.  The President answers to Us.

Our World, not his.  Our life, not his.  Our future, not his.

If you really want a better world, only you have the power to make it so!








Friday, November 11, 2016

"Dear President Trump,"


. . . Are you ready to act with restraint, instead of anger?  Are you ready to forego the pithy one-liners and take the time to frame your comments so as to calm and unite?  Now secure in the White House, can you set aside your personal beliefs to attend to another's unlike beliefs in a gesture of compromise?

It is said that you do not fail, ever...I say, President Trump, that you are already set to fail unless you create a diverse cabinet and set of advisers--made up of "yay-sayers" and "nay-sayers" of every ethnic, religious and gender background.

If your are sincere in your desire to unite America, you must stand outside Democratic and Republican boundaries and embrace the Whole nation.  Every citizen young and old.  You must take the time to explain to Americans that no single person or group can have it their way all the time; that you will identify and address the country's greatest needs first and foremost, thereby creating a bridge between opposing parties and ideologies.

If those trampled down are not lifted up, you have failed.  If the rich get richer and poor, poorer, you have failed.  If people cannot afford education, healthcare and the basics of daily living and sustenance, you have failed.   If under your guidance the world becomes more volatile, you have failed.  If the misplaced and displaced continue to go homeless and abandoned, you have failed.

To unite, you must invest in the tools of kindness, compassion and forgiveness.  Weapons of mass destruction and precision have no place here. . . .

Friday, April 8, 2016

WHAT ARE RELIGIOUS BELIEFS?

Perhaps now is the time in our history to ask the question: what is a belief and should that belief be legalized by law?

I submit that beliefs are personal.  Therefore, I do not agree that these beliefs should be legalized as correct, irrefutable, or the only way to see a person, place or thing.

In our country right now, religious beliefs are being placed ahead of all other beliefs, and in turn, are being given legal status over and above the fundamental premise of our country, which promises to afford equal access to all without discrimination.

A religious belief is a personal conviction that has evolved over time after having been sorted through by various human beings from many alternate possibilities.  These same beliefs are regularly open to reinterpretation as times and people change. In most instances, certain religious beliefs are a requirement of membership in various churches and congregations.  And it is fair to say that no two churches believe the exact same dogma, although many claim a common history.

America's "freedom of speech" allows one to speak his beliefs through words and through protest (actions), but when it comes to legally denying another citizen that which is accessible to everyone not of the particular group in question, a dangerous line is crossed, and one group is denied equal access over another.

We must not legalize a belief in a free land.  Hitler legalized beliefs.  Mussolini legalized beliefs. Apartheid legalized beliefs.  Slavery was a legalized belief.

Each of the above denied another person or group that which the denier enjoyed to the fullest.

We cannot, we must not, take this route.

Compassion, tolerance, openness, and knowledge.  These first.

And always: Do no harm, do not judge (the most oft forgot religious belief).





Saturday, March 5, 2016

The 2016 Elections


Much is being said about the 2016 elections.  Very little of it is positive.  After years of congressional stalemate, rising social despair as a result of an inept process and the stonewalling of one party against another, one would think we lived in a "cold war" state with one "monarchy forever challenging the other for absolute political power.  Even the Supreme Court has become a bastion of partisan politics.

Only in a deeply dissatisfied nation could the likes of a Donald Trump find audience for his oft offensive and divisive language.  To be clear, we are a deeply divided, scared and worn out body politic.

For decades Americans have been subjected to the same'ole-same''ole come election time.  With politicians rarely answering questions put to them, employing mud-slinging in lieu of debate, and making promises, promises, promises with no obvious plan in hand.

American Democracy has transformed into Hypocrisy--one party against another, with neither willing to give a centimeter of ground.  Whoever is elected to the White House the target of relentless opposition and threats from day one.

Executive and legislative cooperation happens only under threat of political annihilation at the polls.

We blame the Middle East for its strong religious undercurrent, where the Ayatollah is the supreme leader in many countries.  But how are we different, when the word "Evangelical Christian" determines what one party will or will not do.

Religious freedom is one of  many freedoms we enjoy as Americans, but somehow we have raised religious freedom above all the rest.  We have made it a litmus test for making it to the white house.  We have lost out way...we are no longer a government of the People, by the People and for the People.

We have become a government of the few, for the few and by the few.  The Conservative stands on one side, the Liberal on the other.   There appears to be no in-between.  These categories have been tightly defined over time and now they threaten to destroy us.

Rational individuals with a wider world view realize that the U.S. is awash with millions of ideas and beliefs. We are neither a conservative nor a liberal nation.  Nor are we a christian or non-christian nation.  We are an amalgamation of peoples, all of whom came from somewhere else.

America began as a beacon of hope for a new way.  And how we got here is an interesting story, but right now it would be best to focus on where we are and how we move out of this hole we've dug ourselves into.

Donald Trump's popularity is not because he will make a great president.  Donald Trump's popularity owes its appeal to the inability of those running for office to speak from the heart and not from the prompter.  To speak the truth, even if the truth is hard to speak

First, we must accept the fact that no president ever solved all of our problems.  Our form of government does not give him/her that much power.

Second, not every member of congress is a political insider whose only goal is reelection and power.

Third, we have lost the ability to compromise with those who disagree with us.

Fourth, millions do not vote, and yet voting is the best way to express your support for, or you dissatisfaction with, the current state of affairs.

The Government works for Us.  The People.  We do not work for it.  That being said, we as individuals cannot have everything we want.  Only the castaway on a deserted island has that option, and even s/he is subject to the will of mother nature.

In the end, laws, systems, and organizations do not make a better world, people do.  If our government is failing us, then people are at fault.  If your idea of a good president is one who will give You what you want because you believe your way is the best way, then you are part of the problem.  All of us fall into the category at one time or the other.

Donald Trump is a wake-up call for America.  He speaks to our darker side.  He draws it out.  He thrives upon it.

I will tell you now that America's greatness is not lost, we are just looking in the wrong place.  America's greatness is in her actions, not in her words.  Her compassion.  Her stand for human rights.  Her humanitarian generosity.  Her undying, though sometimes faltering, ideal of a better, more tolerant world.

This is, and has always been, our greatness and no one can take it from us unless we give it away!



Monday, February 22, 2016

CRIMES AGAINST HUMANITY

The Greatest Crimes against Humanity are . . .

Poverty
Starvation
Isolation
Displacement by wars perpetrated by the few
Ethnic erasure...the bullying and murder of those not like us

What will it take to change this eon's long pattern?